Apex Effect


Have you ever experienced an Apex Effect with erotic hypnosis?

How would you know? Since you had deleted, distorted and generalized the experience to such an extent it was erased from your memory.

People affected by the apex effect may have lost their fear, pain, or whatever the symptom had been during the treatment, but will not credit the outcome to the treatment itself, trying to find other explanations (“You’ve just distracted me”, “Its hypnosis”, “It’s a placebo effect,” “It happened so long ago,” “I only feel it when it really happens,” “The problem wasn’t that serious, anyway.”) Moments earlier, the patient may have been saying that the problem was current, serious, and that he was presently feeling its effects.

At the high end of the apex effect, the person might not even remember that they ever had the problem at all which is a most disconcerting thing – one minute, they recoil at the very mention of the word “Spider”, and ten minutes later, they may insist that it had never been a problem in the first place.

A person who has been hypnotized, and who remembers the suggestions that were given to him, may deny that hypnosis had anything to do with it. He went to a buffet and chose small amounts of low-calorie foods, because it was the rational thing to do (though he had been unable to do that previously.) He has begun an exercise program because he has finally made time to do that, even though he had not previously done that, and finding time was included in the suggestion.

A person finally gets started doing her master’s thesis, does not believe that hypnotism had anything to do with it (until she has a thought about wanting to do more, but will get a good night’s sleep so she can do better work tomorrow, and realizes that was the exact wording of the suggestion.)

A person who has been hypnotized to close a classroom window whenever the professor says a certain word, may say he did that because he was too cool, and denies the effect of hypnotism, even when reminded of the suggestion.

Crystal Gazing Hypnosis

A client asked me recently about the origins of crystals used in hypnosis so allow me to explain. It has been practiced since ancient times with the help of a crystal lobe, a pool of water, or any transparent object.

The main purpose of the objects are always to induce in the clairvoyant a state of hypnosis so the seer can see visions in the crystal. The reflection of light in the crystal forming points de repere for such hallucinations. Thus, the value of hypnotic ritual lies in its potential to affect the mind and imagination of the seer.

The photo was taken in 2012.


Setting Sex Goals

We’ve all heard about the power of setting goals. Everyone has surely seen statistics that connect goal setting to success in your life. I’m sure if I asked you today what your goals are, you could rattle off a few wants and hopes without thinking too long.

However, what most people do not know is how the real power of goal setting is hidden within writing goals down. Committing goals to paper and reviewing them regularly gives you a 95% higher chance of achieving your desired outcomes. Studies have shown that only three to five percent of people in the world have written goals – the same three to five percent who have actually achieved considerable wealthy developments. Steve Jobs was notorious for keeping a daily log of his goals.Young couple making love

There have been new advancements in the mind systems associated with peak performance, including the system of SMART goals that are rooted in your own personal value system. These systems help you to achieve your goals faster.

What are sex goals?

Sex goals just like any regular goal are defined targets that are associated to a specific time frame and step-by-step action plan; they focus your efforts, and drive your motivation in a single direction.

For example: Susan wants to set a goal to experience vaginal orgasms. She had been classified as anorgasmic by a sex therapist but found hypnosis to help her experience a clitoral orgasm for the first time nine months ago.

Goals are different from dreams in that they outline a plan of action, while dreams are an undefined vision.

Sex goals require work; work on your physical body, addressing beliefs that are working against you, and work on others. You cannot achieve a goal – no matter how badly you want it – without being prepared to make a considerable effort. If you are ready to invest your time and energy, goals will help you to take a sexual fantasy into reality.

Make a change in your sex life. Add incredibly positive sexual experience, or remove negative experiences that haunt and control you. Improve your sexual skills and performance ability. Start or change a habit that is detrimental to your sexuality.

Join Kali Bliss on January 1st 2014 at 3pm PST to set your sex goals for 2014. This is a live training open to Inner Circle Members and readers.

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Going Beyond Social Norms For Sexual Relationships

Catherine The Great, who ruled Russia from 1762 till her death in 1796, is an example of how there are always strategies to go beyond social norms and have what you want sexually. She always got what she wanted, and by the time Catherine was 23 she had her first affair, with chamberlain Sergei Saltykov. Then came the aristocrat Stanislas Poniatowski, secretary to the British ambassador. According to Virginia Rounding, author of “Catherine the Great: Love, Sex, and Power,” Catherine would dress like a male in order to sneak out and rendezvous with her lovers. Years later, when Catherine was empress, she’d help make Poniatowski king of the Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth.

She had a a daughter by Poniatowski in 1757, and five years later gave birth to a son by another man, Count Grigory Orlov. Her husband Peter was deposed three months after the birth of her son. Orlov would be her favorite until 1772. By 1774 she’d taken up with Grigory Potyomkin, one of her conspirators in the coup. She made him her advisor, and by association he became the most powerful man in Russia. When their affair grew boring, they remained friends and allies; it was rumored that he procured young lovers for the empress, and that these boys were first tested on her ladies in waiting. By her waning years, Catherine was a wild cougar; her last lover, Prince Zubov, was forty years younger than she.

Those urges we have deep within us, we can pretend they don’t exist or we can take what we want.

This furniture below was ‘supposedly’ commissioned by Catherine The Great.




The 3 Phases of Sex Pronounced D.E.A.D.

The 3 Phases of the Sex Relationship Pronounced D.E.A.D.

•First phase, when one realizes that they are in a sexless relationship, they are worried. They want to fix it. They talk about it to their mate, and want to know why it happens. They both agree in getting help, finding ways to rekindle. They do the traditional routes of romance, dating again and saying those three magic words (that do NOT work)…

•Second phase, nothing changes. There are many more years of sexless living, one mate is completely fine with it, while the other is torn to pieces. This phase lasts the longest. It goes and goes until the frustrated mate can no longer put-up, or realizes life is too short to be made miserable by someone.

•Third phase, the frustrated mate decides to, 1) find sex outside of the relationship, 2) starts building a wall to protect her/his vulnerability. She/he retaliates, and starts living as a roommate, brother and sister, family style, 3) the frustrated partner becomes weak, starts being anything and everything just to have some intimacy. She becomes a sex slave. Giving but not getting back.

Whichever outcome the sexless relationship falls into. The bottom line is the frustrated partner eventually wakes-up, or decides life is too short to be made miserable by another person. They seek outside sexual attention to have their needs met. The same path applies to all the third phase choices, which is a decision to bury the relationship and move on.

Lets skip back to the first phase, what if you had a remote control to bypass your lover’s conscious mind into a place where sex is a mysterious fun adventure then I’d suggest you join me Wednesday night for an Advanced Hypnosis For Sex training where I show you how to put the phases on pause and record a new very intense sexual future with your lover. Join me Wednesday for this training. Email Helpcenter@DirtyHypnotist.com to sign up.

A sexless relationship is a slow death and each minute you stay is a minute you could be having great sex. It isn’t obvious, yet a person is trapped in the marriage and children, and for many people sex is considered a want not need. A sexless relationship is demeaning to the person, it makes her feel like their begging for attention. It is belittling to their self-esteem, and mentally depressing.

The Sex Room

I find a lot of people stuck in a pattern where sex just happens in bed. What if you had a sex room? A room dedicated only to pleasure. A place that triggers only arousing thoughts. A place that makes your pussy wet with the grip of the door knob. What would it be like?


Would it be an old renovated warehouse with a big open window on the third floor overlooking a busy downtown? Ropes strung to spread eagle a beautiful woman for all to admire?

Would it be a room in your home where you have pillows on the floor, sage burning in a ceramic dish and tapestries on the wall?

How is your sex room set up? What type of tools and gadgets would your room sport? My Inner Circle Member shared with me the following gadgets that make his room superior:

1. I am usually laying on a liberator mat on the floor. I have three pillows and three bolsters in arms reach.

2. I have toys, they include
six butt plugs various sizes made out of metal or glass
 Kali Bliss masturbator for women made out of glass.
two vibrating dildo actually prostrate stimulators. these never really create prostrate milking.
  Massage hooks used for prostrate massage
   coconut oil,
            cinnamon oil,
            castor oil,
penetrator, 18 inch tens unit butt penetrator electro shock
cattle prod hand held, works good on certain body parts
massage table,
6 – 60 inch boot strings for cock and ball tying
2 18 foot japanese bondage ropes,
 Nipple clamps, the most harsh I could find with a chain between the more you pull the harder the pinch.
3. I always have the tens unit at a fifteen minutes notice with uretha sound attachment, penetrator attachment for anal use, and the multiple shock pads. 

What would that be like for you? To have a room devoted just to your pleasure even if you don’t deserve it. I dare you to create a room, take photos and send them to me.